Workshop description Hard and Soft - Limits We've likely all seen the bdsm checklists - things we have done and love to do, and the things we couldn't imagine doing and never want to even think about participating in. those 'hard limits'. They're a mainstay of informed negotiations, and it's relatively easy to rattle off the short list of things that are not to be included in a scene. However, often enough there's a longer list of "soft" limits - things that we're unsure of, not ready for, or uninformed about that we don't want to include. just in case. In this workshop we'll discuss how to discuss hard and soft limits with partners or potential play partners, for both top and bottom. We'll discuss how to re-focus a scene when you find out that something you intended to play with is one of your partner's hard or soft limits, and when a dominant or top can start to approach some of the soft limits. Naturally we'll also discuss when limits should NOT be pushed, and the negative consequences that can occur when pushing limits without consent. This workshop is upcoming. If you would like to teach this class (or know someone who should), please contact us at p3gatherings @ gmail. com.